Here’s the link to part (2) youtu.be There is not a lot of information out there for people who are in a relationship with a bipolar person who’s not on medication and so i thought i would post 2 videos to give my explanation on how it was for me. (I respond to all comments. if not on the video thread i will respond through inbox) thank you.
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leave her
YOU have not place to make a generalization! Sounds like your chick has issues. Not all bipolars are on drugs + alcohol!!! (I am not on meds and I have been with my husband for 17 years!) Not all bipolars are abusive!!!
You don’t know about bipolar and people’s demands!!
If you can’t handle the heat, get out the kitchen!!!
If you loved her, you’d stick by her!!!
I agree with wishyouknew387 and 1882ing
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fuck her off you dont need the stress.
hey, nice video… I dont know why people r swearing at u. I am Bipolar and yo`ure right. I`m afraid of making comitments… If I feel tied up or pressured I get really pinicky and i want to run… when and if I dont sleep I am a totally different person, agresive and I have crazy thoughts in my mind. I feel like kiling my coworkers. I wont tho im not crazy. 4 people with bipolar disorder I advise.get a full 8 hour sleep and in the morning take a B-COMPLEX vitamin for the nervous system suport.
@wishyouknew387 i think its unfair what u r saying to this lady that is telling bipolar frm the point of view from the families and partners and what they put up with, its not easy for them infact its just as hard. This lady is a very brave woman for putting this video up from the outsiders point of view, im very glad this video is put up, it helps partners understand it better and whaat they might have to go through themselves its not all bout the person with bipolar like me.
@goddessdianamoon thanxs for putting up these videos as i am a bipolar person myself, i am on meds but just found out that my docs have screwed up my medication giving me velafaxine which is a mild depressent instead of bipolar medication which seen me take drastic measures to stop my life, i dont do drugs or drink very much anymore, but living is very hard, my partner is very patient with me he is but in the uk dont have many places for support, i agree it isnt easy for the partners.
@goddessdianamoon I watched your video and it seemed like you are describing my EX. And your feelings are exactly the same as mine. They feel no responsibility at all but unlike you, I confront her about what she has been doing and keep reminding her of her condition. She hates it…
Thank you for sharing
@ddevrovic With all do respect… I must disagree and completely dissent with your comments. As a practitioner the behaviors described are very similar of those who are diagnosed bipolar or even a person with both Bipolar and Borderline Personality disorder. It is true with each of these you will have risky behaviors such as drinking drugs, gambling… etc. It will take a counselor to evaluate and make an accurate diagnosis.
@wishyouknew387 : well from the attack taken… i must ask…. are you bipolar. I think that she is expressing her feelings for someone that she loved, and did not know how to deal with them. You… in my opinion should refrain from the negative comments and really empathize…. if there is a possibility for empathy to occur. Your attitude is extremely hateful.
Your just plain Hypocritical!
@wishyouknew387 this is only half of what they display towards others. If you are in a relationship with one, you have to decided to stay or leave. some need help leaving like getting counseling to handle post traumatic stress syndrome. thank you for reading
@wishyouknew387 The primary symptoms of bipolar disorder are dramatic and unpredictable mood swings. I’m not going to say anything in return to this post you left me because the advice given to me is to not feed a BP’s dramatic rant. So instead i will talk to other readers who see this. Everyone this is exactly what i’m talking about in my vid, they can get strongly emotionally abusive and have no hart or hold no responsibility to what they do or say. This is why i left my EX.
Oh and you also seem to need to be in the spotlight. Your worthless videos do nothing but draw attention to your ignorant self. You are an embarresment to yourself and those around you. Why don’t you get a hobby or job. I could go on about how fat and ugly you. I could say start a diet cause you are lazy and have no control over eating healthy but I don’t because of compassion and understanding for people like you that are sick because obesity has taken over their life. Doesn’t feel to good!
you are a moron! No one is asking for pity just understanding. People do apologize for their actions. Get over yourself. If you can’t handle it than disassociate yourself from that person and stop complaining about it. Ask a mother who has a child with BP. Your view may be different. You need to grow up!
@ndeedavis i believe i said in my second video that upon finding out that significant other has BP make sure that they have had years of counseling and medication. I don’t know how they are with treatment but it has to be better then when not treated.Its not ok for someone with BP to say to their loved ones well i have this, its not my fault so you must put up and shut up. No, really thats not how it goes. its a BP’s responsibility to try to make it better.
@ndeedavis thank you for your post
@wishyouknew387 Seriously, how dare you! how the heck do u know who’s the better person? why, because of the simple fact that you have what he has? This is a lose lose situations for both the BP and the BP target. when it comes to family going threw this NO ONE WINS. what is the matter with you? so you say u there r times when u cant control it. so, i guess that means u can say, “well, its not my fault so loved 1′s should put and and shut up. You are WRONG!!! ur the selfish 1here
@Trillidotia yes, i couldn’t agree with you more. i’m very happy that you were one of the few who was strong and courageous enough to find an out. that you were able to find support in helping to understand that none of this is your fault what so ever, you deserve to be free.
@Trillidotia I know that your decision was the hardest to make n that it wasn’t an over the night decision. I truly sympathize in what it means to leave while hart strings r still connected to your family. If u are feeling at all guilty for decisions of doing this, know this.. that we r all born with a choice of freedom to not live in destruction. I think for at least your mom and other members, them seeing you happy is the most soothing on the soul. they live vicariously threw u.
@Trillidotia I loved this woman that i described in this video, what i gone through was pretty harsh BUT i know that “family”dealing with bipolar loved ones tears the hart in ways that i’m not going to pretend that i could fathom. i’m deeply sorry, i imagine that this can tare a family a part in the most hart wrenching way. Some times you got to love from afar. wish that person the best, keep good thoughts and remove your self as you did to live a healthier happier life. continued..
@MariaDY Some one else said that to me. I only go by what she was diagnosed with. If she is borderline personality, it doesn’t matter, it only would matter for treatment purpopses that she would not be on board with anyways. Still bipolar, borderline personality… they all have manic stages, during those times violence can rare its ugly heads being abusive to loved ones near. that is what this vid is all about. Some of you are not getting that point.
@JessicaAntoinetteUK delve deep… what things ARE you doing in your life to express. it comes out somehow. if you don’t know, i don’t know. that’s a road for you to find of self discovery.
@ddevrovic I been with her for years, did i post everything on here that shes ever did, no i didn’t. If i did post everything (manic episodes) it would blow your mind. this vid was not about bashing her it was to help other people who have to deal with them. if u watched both vids you would see that i said this is my own experience. as yrs went by she got worse her manic depressed episodes were getting to suicidal threats. i had to leave. tht is a small window into this. enough for u?
@wishyouknew387 i also wanted to say is no i was not looking for sympathy but in doing this vid i did get a lot of other people on here who sympathize, why??? cos they went through the same thing. isn’t that what sympathy means… to understand based on having lived the same experience? If you read through the posts you will see that some people with bipolar agree with me and hope to change with counseling. you may walk away with anger but others got something from it.
@BellaDonnaGypsy why do people chose to hear things in the way they want to hear statements? i said most likely they are alcoholics actually they express in other ways too, like excessive sex, or other unhealthy ways of expression. so you are right its not always drugs and alcohol. but thats not what i said anyways.